Ryan Leaf....
Posted: Tue Jun 19, 2012 12:54 pm
I do. He played hurt in high school and college and now he's an addict? Go ahead--throw the first stone...There but for the grace of God, go I.allcat wrote:Show of hands, who feels sorry for this guy? Who even cares anymore?
I feel bad for him. Sure he was a cocky and mouthy kid. But he's on the verge of killing himself if he doesn't get this figured out. I wish him well and a successful recovery.Cat Grad wrote:I do. He played hurt in high school and college and now he's an addict? Go ahead--throw the first stone...There but for the grace of God, go I.allcat wrote:Show of hands, who feels sorry for this guy? Who even cares anymore?
My thoughts exactly. Hope he gets it figured out.tampa_griz wrote:I feel bad for him. Sure he was a cocky and mouthy kid. But he's on the verge of killing himself if he doesn't get this figured out. I wish him well and a successful recovery.Cat Grad wrote:I do. He played hurt in high school and college and now he's an addict? Go ahead--throw the first stone...There but for the grace of God, go I.allcat wrote:Show of hands, who feels sorry for this guy? Who even cares anymore?
+1tampa_griz wrote:I feel bad for him. Sure he was a cocky and mouthy kid. But he's on the verge of killing himself if he doesn't get this figured out. I wish him well and a successful recovery.Cat Grad wrote:I do. He played hurt in high school and college and now he's an addict? Go ahead--throw the first stone...There but for the grace of God, go I.allcat wrote:Show of hands, who feels sorry for this guy? Who even cares anymore?
I do. The guy's in deep personal trouble and he's never done anything to hurt me or anyone else that I know about. I hope he gets his life straightened out.allcat wrote:Show of hands, who feels sorry for this guy? Who even cares anymore?
I don't. He has had many opportunities that most of us are never going to have. The only reason that we know anything about him, is because he had those opportunities. I have freinds that have had to go to rehab, and I have supported them. I don't know this guy, or care what happens to him. He is a thief, he broke into people's houses to steal. This guy has had many "second chances" he has ignored them all.Bay Area Cat wrote:I do. The guy's in deep personal trouble and he's never done anything to hurt me or anyone else that I know about. I hope he gets his life straightened out.allcat wrote:Show of hands, who feels sorry for this guy? Who even cares anymore?
Addiction is not something that I would blame anyone for ... I just hope they can find a way to overcome it.
When we are talking about pro sports, in terms of who wins and who loses, that's all nothing more than entertainment in my mind. I don't even bother trying to treat it seriously or applying any real standards to how I view things.
But when you strip all of that away and get down to the real people involved in their real personal lives, I try to look at them as I would my neighbors or anyone else ... and so it saddens me greatly to hear about a guy like him or anyone else struggling with life as much as he is.
I'm hoping for a happy ending. There's still a chance. He hasn't killed anybody or done anything (that I'm aware of) that will have lasting harm on anyone else, so if he can get things straightened out in his own head/body, and get his legal matters cleared up, all is well.
Who even cares?allcat wrote:I don't.
Your post reminds me of a column Christopher Hitchens wrote in response to how people reacted when Paris Hilton's arrest was broadcast and she was crying and so forth. He basically said that taking joy in the misfortune of someone who really didn't harm anyone in a significant way, even someone as annoying as her, says as much about those people as it does the former. If interested:Bay Area Cat wrote:I do. The guy's in deep personal trouble and he's never done anything to hurt me or anyone else that I know about. I hope he gets his life straightened out.allcat wrote:Show of hands, who feels sorry for this guy? Who even cares anymore?
Addiction is not something that I would blame anyone for ... I just hope they can find a way to overcome it.
When we are talking about pro sports, in terms of who wins and who loses, that's all nothing more than entertainment in my mind. I don't even bother trying to treat it seriously or applying any real standards to how I view things.
But when you strip all of that away and get down to the real people involved in their real personal lives, I try to look at them as I would my neighbors or anyone else ... and so it saddens me greatly to hear about a guy like him or anyone else struggling with life as much as he is.
I'm hoping for a happy ending. There's still a chance. He hasn't killed anybody or done anything (that I'm aware of) that will have lasting harm on anyone else, so if he can get things straightened out in his own head/body, and get his legal matters cleared up, all is well.
Although you are trying to use my post against me, does this one not turn around on you?Bay Area Cat wrote:Who even cares?allcat wrote:I don't.
No, it doesn't turn back on me. You asked the question that I (and others) answered, so you must have cared about the answer.allcat wrote:Although you are trying to use my post against me, does this one not turn around on you?Bay Area Cat wrote:Who even cares?allcat wrote:I don't.
Perhaps other people's opinions, but not the guy.Bay Area Cat wrote:No, it doesn't turn back on me. You asked the question that I (and others) answered, so you must have cared about the answer.allcat wrote:Although you are trying to use my post against me, does this one not turn around on you?Bay Area Cat wrote:Who even cares?allcat wrote:I don't.
That would be our wish for everybody,KittieKop wrote:Feel sorry for Ryan Leaf? No, I don't. I do have pity for him though. I do really think though he may be a true DB at heart, that his life has spiraled completely out of his control also. And on a purely human level I hope he can figure out how to get his crap together before he kills himself or someone else.