Friend is a prof at St. Martin's College, and teaching 300 Psych class. Tired of students asking her for dating advice gave the assignment to read a self-help book and point out areas that they've encountered where men and women miscommunicate. She later asked them to write out their own advice from lessons they learned. Realized that after she read her students papers that it is easier to buy a dog and live the rest of your life with it than ever have to re-enter the dating pool.
just for fun thought of what i learned while at MSU and this is what i came up with :
1. don't let athletes twice your size sit behind you in class with bags full of candy from the sweet shop, especially if you have any cleavage showing. your chest suddenly becomes target practice.
2. don't goto the Crystal unarmed with girlfriends if you're going to do shots with those same athletes.
3. when a man says "I'd feel differently if you were single and there was no attraction between us." with regards to hanging out, what he means is "why waste my time if i'm not going to get laid."
4. Don't ever tell a man he's adorable when he's referring to his job. although he might be, he'll take it as an insult.
5. when he says "i'd love to introduce you to my friends, but right now it's not appropriate", he means "I'm cheating, and everyone knows my girlfriend".
6. Don't think men don't compare notes on women they date.
7. Men NEED to feel needed and that they don't like women as independant as they may claim.
8. don't offer to pick up the check, because it implies he's broke. even if you just don't feel right about it, unless otherwise asked of you, DON'T do this.
9. If they ask to study Biology with you at your house, don't be shocked if he tries to get naked.
and 10.
DON"T ever honestly tell a man what your parents really think about him. Or his profession, it doesn't go over well.
know wonder women and men are so messed up. glad not to be single these days, it's too much work
rebecca
