El_Gato wrote:I'm not arguing whether or not it should/shouldn't be legal; that's too much of an issue for now. You are saying, however, that if your kids choose to break the law when they are "adults" (in their 20's, you said), that's OK with you? You honestly mean the only reason you'd be upset with them if they were smoking pot in high school is because it's currently illegal? Are you CERTAIN that's the ONLY reason? You'd have no problem with it if it was legal? So when they're 18, are you going to be OK with them smoking cigarettes?
I'm not following what you're trying to say, so rather than responding to your attempt to restate the point I was making, I'll just make my own point:
I wouldn't want my kids making decisions to do things that are riskier behaviors (including drinking, smoking, driving, gambling, pot, etc.) until they were old enough to do so responsibly and with all of the information they need to make a good decision.
I was going through that logic assuming that if legalized for adults, pot would still be illegal for minors, along with all of the other things I listed. They are illegal for minors because they require more responsiblity than minors possess.
Therefore, when you ask me if I would care if my kids smoked pot during a conversation about adults smoking pot, I answered accordingly, framing the kids conversation in terms of what is right and wrong for kids, and noting that we do treat adults differently.
I would certainly discourage things that I thought were bad for them (smoking cigs, excessive drinking, drinking and driving, drug abuse, etc.) even when they are adults (I'm confused as to where you were going with that), but at that point they make their own decisions.